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What to do about Christmas, December 25, 2017

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We are taking a short break from The Story for Advent and Christmas season. We’ll be back into The Story next week. We’re taking this one more week from the consecutive schedule so that our readings at Easter coincide with the events as recorded in The Story. This is our third and last week away from that study, but rest assured we will go back to it next week and then finish our journey exploring God’s plan to bring us back into a face to face relationship with Him.

You may or may not be listening to this podcast as it is being released, but it was released at 5:00 am Christmas morning. Growing up, that was the about as late as my mom could stand it. She would wake all of us up (if we weren’t already awake). We’d rush down the hall to the living room and get stopped in the hallway until dad could set up the camera. Then we would rush into the living room to see what Santa left under the tree. The next ten or thirty minutes were spent oohing and aahing over that magical thing that appeared under the tree from the night before.

Next, we would open all the other presents under the tree that belonged to our family. As the family grew, with five kids, it took a little while for all of them to get opened, chaos to subside and all the wrappings to be gathered and trashed. Once the unwrapping was done we got to pick one thing to take with us to granny’s house where all who could came for breakfast. Granny’s husband died when my father was only five and remained a widow the rest of her life, so most of her kids came home every Christmas to join her for breakfast. Many of the grandkids also stopped by, so it wasn’t unusual to have forty or fifty people trying to run shifts at the table or sofa or just find some standing room in her tiny two bedroom house.

But one thing that always happened at Granny’s house was that someone read the Christmas story from Luke Chapter 2 after breakfast. Then we would shower her with gifts. She never wanted anything and after she moved into an assisted living facility, they found many of those gifts unused in closets, under beds, stuffed away wherever she could find a spot because she just didn’t know how to receive gifts very well and didn’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings by taking anything back or regifting as is common today.

Granny made sure everyone knew what Christmas was about. It wasn’t about presents and decorations and shopping and the hustle and bustle we seem to make it so many times today. Granny made sure we knew it was about Jesus’ birth. She even made Him a birthday cake that all us grandkids enjoyed every year on Christmas day for lunch. She always made Him the center of everything that day and made it clear to the family we were celebrating His coming.

Granny would tell me when I was growing up that her call in life was to raise a Christian family. Of the 96 family members at her funeral when she died, a fourth were in full-time Christian ministry. Many served as Sunday School teachers, sang in choirs, served on church boards and committees, and gave their time and energy in myriad ways to their local church. You could count on one hand the number that weren’t in church regularly. And by regularly, I mean every service. Then it meant Sunday morning, Sunday night, and Wednesday night. Granny raised a family committed to Christ.

We live in a highly mobile society and kids and grandkids no longer live close enough to do what Granny’s family did every Christmas. We were only an hour or so away the whole time I was growing up. When Carole and I had kids, we were half a world away from their grandparents. Unfortunately, that’s the way with a huge portion of the population now. We can’t spend time with family like we did in days gone by.

But we can still remember Jesus on Christmas. We can still embrace the importance of community and reach out to those around us. To build a family of friends, not to replace our flesh and blood kin, but to share the love of Christ and the importance of this special day. Does that mean we have to prepare big meals with ham and turkey and lots of side dishes and desserts and spend half the day in the kitchen for a 20 minute meal? No.

At Granny’s we had biscuits, eggs, bacon, sausage, and that’s about it. All of us pitched in to help cook so the meal was pretty simple, quick and easy and it wasn’t the food we went for anyway. We went for the fellowship. It can be the same with any gathering. We don’t need to impress anyone with preparations to enjoy their company. If you have to do that, then those are the wrong people to invite. Invite the ones that don’t care if pillows are out of place or dishes don’t match. The ones that will get their own beverages after you show them where they are the first time.

Spend Christmas in community with people you love. Just sharing Jesus’ love with those around you will make a big difference in your life and theirs. Remember those two commands Jesus gave us that wraps all the others together? Love God and love people. When we do that, something incredible happens. We share the grace and mercy we’ve been given to others in the same way God has give His grace and mercy to us. We learn to give cheerfully from a heart full of love. Those around us see Jesus in our actions when we truly love with His love.

I don’t know what kind of traditions you have in your family. Ours have changed through the years because of experiences we had through our military travels that took us far from family and even sometimes separated us. We made accommodations to what use to be long held traditions because of things that change around us with health and age and place and time. But through it all, there is still one constant.

Jesus is the center of our celebration. We recognize there would be no Christmas without Christ. He is the reason we have the holiday. He is the reason we gather together. He is why we laugh and cry and live and breathe. Jesus is why.

If we lose the real reason for Christmas we lose it all. Whatever you do this day or this season, don’t forget why we celebrate in the first place. Don’t lose the centerpiece of all that happens in this season named for the one to whom it truly belongs. Keep Christ, not just at Christmas, but all year long.

Next week we will return to our study of The Story, God’s plan to restore a face to face relationship with us. We finished chapter 14 before our short break. Next week we will begin reading chapter 15.

You can find me at richardagee.com. I also invite you to join us at San Antonio First Church of the Nazarene on West Avenue in San Antonio to hear more about The Story and our part in it. You can find out more about my church at SAF.church. Thanks for listening. If you enjoyed it, tell a friend. If you didn’t, send me an email and let me know how better to reach out to those around you. Until next week, may God richly bless you as you venture into His story each day.

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Giving or getting, which to do like best?, December 18, 2017

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We are in a short respite from our study of The Story. We will pick up our readings from that study again after Christmas. But until then, we will enjoy the Advent season and focus on the first coming of Jesus and His expected return. Incidentally, our three week pause will put our Easter readings in line with the Easter season as we march through God’s story, His plan to bring us back into an intimate, face to face relationship with Him.

We all like presents, I think. Some of us like giving presents as much or more than getting them. I’ll admit, when I was young, I liked the getting part a lot better, but as I’ve matured, I really do like the giving a lot more than the getting. I think there is something that changes in us as we go through a few seasons of life. Let’s view a few of those and how they might impact your attitude toward giving this year.

As a child, I thought like a child. Children are selfish. We’re born that way. Just take a look at any infant and you’ll see it’s true. When they don’t get what they want they cry. Feed me. Change me. Hold me. Leave me alone. Let me go to bed. Get me out of bed. Mom’s figure out how to interpret cries pretty well, but babies tell you pretty quickly what they want and they don’t stop telling you until their selfish desires are satisfied. They really could care less about the rest of the world or even the rest of the family. They only care about themselves and their wants.

I became a teenager and learned to give out of luv. That attraction we get when we think we might be compatible to someone. I enjoyed giving something to that special girl I thought I’d be with forever, or at least until next week. You probably remember those teenage crushes and the selfishness that went along with those presents to win the hearts of those to whom they were presented.

Then I matured a little and fell into a state of real love with the lady I’ve been married to for forty-one years. The presents I gave her weren’t meant to get something in return or to win her love, but something to express how I felt expecting nothing in return but hoping she felt as deeply about me as I did about her. Still, I have to say I really enjoyed receiving those presents from her that showed she cared about me, too.

When kids came along, receiving stuff didn’t matter anymore. I wanted to see the joy in their eyes when they received something they wanted, something they liked that they didn’t expect. My giving became so much more important than getting. Grandkids make giving even more fun in the family. Watching my kids’ eyes light up when their kids’ eyes light up is something to behold. Those of you who are grandparents know what I mean.

But this thing about giving being more important and more satisfying than getting started coming about for reasons other than aging and maturing. It is more than just having a wife and kids and grandkids. This thing about enjoying watching the joy in others and watching the glow in other’s faces when they receive something unexpected or something they want or need comes from something deep inside that grows every day as I grow closer to Jesus.

When we pattern our life after His, we learn to enjoy giving. He was the ultimate giver, after all. He gave up heaven to come to earth and walk around this tiny little dirty planet to be with us. He gave up His family to walk the dusty roads of Israel to share the message that God had something better for them. He gave up His life on the cross for the forgiveness of my sins and yours. Jesus gave up everything so that we could have it all. We have eternal life because He gave His on the cross.

When we become like Him, we learn that giving brings joy. We learn that giving from the heart is better than giving from the pocket book. It means that giving time is often much better than giving money. It means that giving of yourself is the ultimate goal of every follower of Jesus. Servanthood, giving and giving and giving for the joy of giving is the life Jesus taught His disciples and the life we find when we let His lead us.

To the world it makes little sense. You can still find lots of adults that have the attitude that the one with the most toys at the end wins. You can find those who believe money and accumulation and getting everything they can get is what it’s all about. You can find those who buy into the world’s lie that material things are the most important things and they go after them with gusto.

To the world, servanthood means weakness. To Jesus it means obedience to His will and incredible strength because it’s His strength, not ours. To the world servanthood means poverty. To Jesus it means indescribable wealth and riches because He created, controls, and rules the universe. To the world servanthood means subordination. To Jesus it means living the way we were created to live in harmony and community.

We see lots of presents under our tree at Christmas time. When the kids and grandkids come to the house we have a great time watching the paper fly and the listening to the squeals of joy and the laughter and excitement that comes from the mouths of those little ones. They grow up too fast and soon the sparkle that comes from getting all those presents will subside. I hope, like their grandparents and their parents, they learn to enjoy giving more than getting and serving more than being served as they mature physically, mentally, and spiritually.

This is a good time to take inventory of your own attitude toward presents. Which do you like best and why? Getting or giving? Take some time and really think about it. I’d like to hear your thoughts if you’d like to share. Remember Paul reminds us in 2 Corinthians 9:7: You should each give what you have decided in your heart to give. You shouldn’t give if you don’t want to. You shouldn’t give becaused you are forced to. God loves a cheerful giver.

It’s not just money God cares about, but time, talent, you. God loves a cheerful giver of themself.

You can find me at richardagee.com. I also invite you to join us at San Antonio First Church of the Nazarene on West Avenue in San Antonio to hear more about The Story and our part in it. You can find out more about my church at SAF.church. Thanks for listening. If you enjoyed it, tell a friend. If you didn’t, send me an email and let me know how better to reach out to those around you. Until next week, may God richly bless you as you venture into His story each day.

 

The Voice Bible Copyright © 2012 Thomas Nelson, Inc. The Voice™ translation © 2012 Ecclesia Bible Society All rights reserved. In accordance with the requirements for FTC full disclosure, I may have affiliate relationships with some or all of the producers of the items mentioned in this post who may provide a small commission to me when purchased through this site.

I’m just a caretaker (Luke 21:3-4) December 30, 2016

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Read it in a year – Revelations 18-22

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Luke 21:3-4
Jesus: I’m telling you the truth, this poor widow has made a bigger contribution than all of those rich fellows. They’re just giving from their surplus, but she is giving from her poverty—she’s giving all she has to give.

What do Jesus’ words mean for us today?

What does it mean to give all you have to God? Does He expect us to turn all our cash over to Him and go home with nothing in our pocket? Not necessarily, but sometimes He might. Does He expect us to live in poverty, not knowing where our next meal will come from? Not necessarily, but sometimes He might. Does God expect us to be so poor we live on the streets at the mercy of the weather and the other street people we meet there? Not necessarily, but sometimes He might.

That sounds pretty non-committal, doesn’t it? The point is, we must be willing to give everything we have to God. Recognize the fact that it all belongs to Him and we are only stewards of the things He lets us use from time to time. So how does He want you to use the things He gives you? For your own benefit and pleasure or for His plans and purposes?

Using assets for His plans and purposes doesn’t usually mean you will be penniless and poverty stricken. Using assets for His plans and purposes doesn’t usually mean you will not enjoy life and have comforts that others enjoy. But those things won’t be what drives you. You’ll find that if God decides He wants them, you don’t have any problem giving them up to Him when you remember they are not yours to start with. They all belong to Him and we are just borrowers. Things are on loan to us while we are here to be used for Him.

So if God decides He wants it for something, it’s His. He can do whatever He wants with it. That’s the hold we should have on things. Hands open ready to release whatever God wants. Houses, money, jobs, things, doesn’t matter. Whatever God wants, He can have it.

That was the attitude of the woman in poverty who gave her last penny in the temple. She didn’t have it to give, but she also knew that it wasn’t hers anyway. She felt God wanted her to give it that day and she put it in the offering. It became an object lesson for Jesus’ disciples and everyone who has read those words ever since. I doubt if she had any idea the importance of her contribution that day. All she wanted to do was please God with the assets He entrusted to her.

The wealthy that crowded past her to make a scene of the large offerings they made really didn’t make any sacrifice that day. They, too, became object lessons, but I doubt if they would like the way their example was used by Jesus that day. But He was right. They gave out of their abundance and it was a pittance compared to the woman who gave her all.

The world teaches us to hold on tight to everything we have. Life is short they say and the boys with the most toys win. But the world is wrong. What are you going to do with the toys in the end? You can’t take them with you. And something I’ve learned as I’ve grown older and maybe a little wiser. Every one of those toys take time away from something else. All of them demand attention. None are time savers. We sometimes buy them because they are advertised as time savers, but I have yet to find any time savers that really live up to their claims.

Sure I can mow the yard faster with a riding mower than a push mower, but that riding mower sure takes a lot more maintenance than a push mower. And I still have to get out the push mower or a weed eater or something, because the riding mower doesn’t get as close to the trees and shrubs and house. The same is true with just about everything. The time saver takes more maintenance or we will find more projects to use the time saving device on because it does such a good job. All it does is take time away from God or family or His plans. So, yeah, not such a great time saver after all.

Maybe it’s time to realize the world has it wrong. The simple life Jesus lived is probably the more satisfying life. Don’t get bogged down with stuff. Am I saying stuff is bad? No. There is nothing good or bad in stuff. It’s just stuff. But when it gets between you and God’s intentions for you, then the stuff is closer to God that you are. Just think about that a second.

I don’t know about you, but I don’t want anything between God and me. So I’ll chose to keep my hands open and let Him use whatever He entrusts to my care anytime He wants it. It’s His anyway. I’m just a caretaker.

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A good way to live (Luke 6:37-38) October 5, 2016

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Read it in a year – Psalms 117-118

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Luke 6:37-38
Jesus: If you don’t want to be judged, don’t judge. If you don’t want to be condemned, don’t condemn. If you want to be forgiven, forgive. Don’t hold back—give freely, and you’ll have plenty poured back into your lap—a good measure, pressed down, shaken together, brimming over. You’ll receive in the same measure you give.

What do Jesus’ words mean for us today?

Man, it’s easy to condemn other people for their actions, isn’t it? My church obviously has it right when it comes to the way we do Christianity. Those other denominations miss the boat. And those on the outside, wow. Look what they do. And the independents, let’s not even start with those, they don’t even ascribe to any particular historic theology. They just believe what they interpret from scripture for themselves. They are obviously on the wrong track.

I hope you hear the sarcasm and don’t think I’m serious about those last few sentences. Unfortunately, as the world looks in on us, that’s what they see and hear too often when they look at the Christian community as a whole. We don’t worship the same, we don’t act the same, we don’t believe the same way, we hold different things important, and then when we get together we fight instead of getting along in worship of the same God and Savior, Jesus Christ.

But that’s not the kingdom way. We have one judge, Jesus. The only One who can condemn is the sinless One, Jesus and He forgives when we accept His forgiveness. So why do we judge and condemn and fail to forgive? Why is it so hard to follow Jesus direction in this regard?

I think it goes back to our trying to earn our way into heaven. We want to do something with the problem that plagues all humanity, sin. So we try to be as good as we can. We try not to steal or lie or cheat. We usually don’t murder or commit adultery or commit other crimes against each other that would put us in jail. But we know deep within our heart that we are not good enough to make it to heaven.

So what we do, is subconsciously figure that God will want to take at least some of us, so if we can be better than the person next to us, we’ll be okay. It’s like the reasoning when camping in bear country. You don’t have to be able to outrun the bear to survive, just the person sitting next to you at the camp fire. Let the bear catch them instead of you.

But there is a problem with that thinking when it comes to the judgment. God’s will is that all of us be saved and join Him in heaven. We are the ones that choose our destiny. And the choice is not by our good or bad behavior because none of us can ever be good enough. God never compares us with each other. That would be like using whatever I might guess is a mile using nothing but my eye as the length of a mile and measure it against what someone else thinks is a mile. God is never that imprecise in judging good and evil. And He already has the correct standard to judge us against. The standard is His son, Jesus, the God/Man.

So how do you measure up to the God/Man, Jesus? He was sinless. That puts all of us way below the standard. You see, every other person is far removed from God because a single sin separates us from Him. He is holy and will not allow sin in His presence. So when measured against the sinless One, we all far short. We all miss the boat. We all deserve the penalty of death. But then God turns to His Son and for those who believe in Him as their redeemer, He finds the sin is gone, forgiven, thrown away as far as the east is from the west never to be remember against us again.

How can we judge when we are so far from God except for God’s love? How can we condemn when we are ourselves condemned except for His forgiveness? How can we not forgive others when He has forgiven us so much and allowed us to come into His presence. How can we not give when He has given us so much?

When we do those things, Jesus gives us a great promise with it. When we forgive, we will find forgiveness, when we give, we will receive in great measure. In fact, I think of being given in measure like brown sugar. You can either pour sugar in from the package and it kind of falls out in clumps and you get about half a cup when when you really want a cup full. Or you can mash it down as you fill the cup and get two or three times as much in the cup as when you just try to pour the brown sugar in. That’s how God gives back, shaken down, smashed in like brown sugar, filled to over flowing.

Sounds like a good way to live, doesn’t it? 

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Be generous and quiet in giving (Matthew 6:1-4) January 18, 2016

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Read it in a year – Genesis 8-11

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Matthew 6:1-4
Jesus: But when you do these righteous acts, do not do them in front of spectators. Don’t do them where you can be seen, let alone lauded, by others. If you do, you will have no reward from your Father in heaven. When you give to the poor, do not boast about it, announcing your donations with blaring trumpets as the play actors do. Do not brazenly give your charity in the synagogues and on the streets; indeed, do not give at all if you are giving because you want to be praised by your neighbors. Those people who give in order to reap praise have already received their reward. When you give to the needy, do it in secret—even your left hand should not know what your right hand is doing. Then your Father, who sees in secret, will reward you.

What do Jesus’ words mean for us today?

What would happen if the government suddenly decided not to give credit for charitable giving? Would it change your giving habits? Would you give less to your favorite charities or to the church? Would your contributions take a nose dive if you didn’t get credit for giving to others? It’s an interesting question and one these words of Jesus ask us ask ourselves. You see, it’s not just the announcement in the press or your name on a board or in a bulletin that might make your head and chest swell because of what you give.

I’m not saying we shouldn’t take advantage of every tax break we can. Our government certainly doesn’t exactly act with much frugality with its runaway spending and $16 trillion debt. I’m not much in favor of giving more money to officials that don’t know how to tighten their belt when they are asking all of us to. And I don’t think God faults us for taking those deductions on our tax returns when it’s time to face the music at this time of year when we start collecting all those bits of information.

But we should seriously ask ourselves why we give. If its because of a tax break, don’t give. If it’s to get the applause and recognition of those around us, don’t give. If it’s to get our name on the cornerstone or chiseled on the arch of the doorway, don’t give. God says, if we have the wrong motive and expect any blessings from Him because of that extravagant gift, you’ve missed the boat. You’ve already received your reward and it will be pretty sour when it comes around.

You might get a few applause and a few pats on the back for your generosity, but it will pass quickly and soon people will see your name on that stone and wonder who it is. Then people will walk by and never even notice the name. The building will eventually sell or be used for another purpose and your name is likely to be chiseled off or covered up. You reward will have passed on and no one will care.

Does that mean God doesn’t want you to give to the needy? Absolutely not! He loves a cheerful giver He says. He commands us to give of our means. He told us to give of our first fruits, the best that we have. In an agrarian society, He said give of the portion normally set aside to ensure the future, the first fruit, the seed crop for the next year. He said give and He would take care of you. But give because He wants you to know He will provide for your needs. He does so without fanfare on His part, and with praise on your part.

He wants you to give and so He fills your cup to overflowing so you can give out of the surplus He provides you. We often think we just must have that extra something, but do we? Do we need that fourteenth extra outfit? Do we need that new gadget that will sit in the closet in two weeks never again to see the light of day? Do we need the latest, fastest, shiniest, best? Maybe we need to figure out the difference between need and want in our materialistic culture and begin to give out of our abundance. May it’s time to share quietly from the things that tie us down and consume our time and effort every day and release them to God for His use.

Let God talk to you about those things and quietly let them go. Quietly let Him find the right place for the wants in your life and figure out the difference between your needs and your wants. God doesn’t intend for you to live in misery, but neither do you need to live in the lap of luxury when there are those around you starving and without hope. Can you feed the world? No. But you might be able to help a hungry youngster in your neighborhood that doesn’t know when she will eat next. You might be able to help a widow on a fixed income with medicine she can’t afford or a disabled vet who needs a ride to a medical appointment.

How can you give without fanfare? Without acknowledgement? Without even expecting a word of thanks? Just give knowing your heavenly Father keeps record of everything you do. Do your good works get you into heaven? No. Only faith in Jesus does that, but once there, our heavenly Father rewards us for the good works we have done. Jesus says so in His word. Be generous in your giving. But be quiet about it, too. 

The Voice Bible Copyright © 2012 Thomas Nelson, Inc. The Voice™ translation © 2012 Ecclesia Bible Society All rights reserved.
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