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Read it in a year – Revelation 1-6
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Today’s Devotional
Luke 14:16-24
Jesus: A man once hosted a huge banquet and invited many guests. When the time came, he sent his servant to tell the guests who had agreed to come, “We’re ready! Come now!” But then every single guest began to make excuses. One said, “Oh, I’m sorry. I just bought some land, and I need to go see it. Please excuse me.” Another said, “So sorry. I just bought five pairs of oxen. I need to go check them out. Please excuse me.” Another said, “I just got married, so I can’t come.”
The servant returned and reported their responses to his master. His master was angry and told the servant, “Go out quickly to the streets and alleys around town and bring the poor, the amputees, the blind, and the cripples.”
The servant came back again: “Sir, I’ve done as you said, but there is still more room.” And the host said, “Well then, go out to the highways and hedges and bring in the complete strangers you find there, until my house is completely full. One thing is for sure, not one single person on the original guest list shall enjoy this banquet.”
What do Jesus’ words mean for us today?
Jesus story reminds me of a wedding I attended not long ago. I was just a guest so I don’t know how many people the bride and groom invited or how many actually sent back an RSVP, but at both the wedding and the reception, there were a lot of empty chairs. I assume that means people said they would come, the wedding party spent a lot of money on food and other accommodations for their expected guests and all the prepared food, money, and energy ended up wasted.
That problem seems to happen more and more these days. We have lost our social graces. We don’t pay any attention to those four little letters that appear at the bottom of most invitations. RSVP means respond. The party that sent the invitation may not care whether you come or not, but at least be polite enough to answer the question. Are you coming? Uhhhh? Hello? Anyone out there? Did you get the invitation? How is anyone supposed to plan when we don’t have the courtesy to let the host know if we’re coming?
It’s not just weddings that the phenomenon happens. In fact, we’re more prone to answer wedding invitations either yes or no that almost any other invitation that comes our way. Birthday parties? Silence. Dinner for a group of people? No response. Invitation to a theater event, ballgame, or other social activity? Nothing. What ever happened to common courtesy and just simple etiquette?
I think it’s a simple answer. It’s that selfishness that rears its ugly head again. We focus on ourselves and don’t really care about anyone else or the inconvenience we might cause in our failure to respond. We just decide at the last minute to go or not to go based on whether there is a better offer for us. How do I feel at the moment of departure? So we just don’t answer. Then if we show up it’s okay and if we don’t, we think it’s okay.
It’s not. Things may not end the way they did with the host and guests in Jesus’ story, but the host will feel the same. And you certainly won’t win friends by letting a host prepare for your coming and then not show up, or show up without the host preparing for you. In the first instance, the host may be pretty angry, in the second, he may be embarrassed because there may be no place for you. Then you might be angry. Both situations end with broken relationships.
How hard is it to send a note in the mail, pick up the phone, or send an email with a simple yes or no to an invitation? We are on our smartphones and computers all day long. What’s a few seconds to confirm or regret that invitation from someone who asks your presence at something. It’s not hard to do and keeps your relationships intact.
The host understands people have things to do and he would not have been angry had those guests sent their regrets when the invitations came out. The problem was their broken promise. They promised to come. Their RSVP said yes. But they made excuses and didn’t show. It’s the broken promise that made the host angry. The same is true today when those simple invitations go out. Be polite. You don’t have to go if you don’t want to. You can say no, but say something. Then keep your promise.
I know, there are lots of other things you could say about this parable that Jesus gave us. Those who heard it understood some of those subtle innuendos, too. They knew Jesus was talking about them and that He referred to their coming absence from God’s banquet table if they didn’t change their ways. But just for a moment, think about the easy thing to see about the story Jesus tells. Be polite. Answer those RSVPs that come this time of year. Then keep the promises you make.
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