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Not a Big Splash, June 1, 2020

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Thanks for joining me today for “A Little Walk with God.” I’m your host Richard Agee.

If you are like me, you probably can’t help but read at least some of the news every day about what’s happening around the world with this pandemic. Here we are with over 100,000 deaths in the US. It’s a little hard to believe something like this would happen in our lifetime with all the advancements in medical care, but we face it every day. And the end still reaches out in front of us with a predicted second wave in just a few short months. 

I’m encouraged by some of the news, though. I read a few stories about celebrities giving hundreds of thousands and sometimes millions of dollars to feed those less fortunate. Those left without jobs as a result of businesses closing to stem the tide of the viral spread. It’s great to see those stories sneak into the overwhelming number of bad news articles of gloom and doom that bombard us every day. 

What I find most fascinating from today’s news, though, is the almost total absence of the little things that neighbors and strangers do in small ways to help each other in this crisis. We tout the big splash people we don’t expect to share their wealth when they do so but never talk about the millions of those who generously share every day, easing the suffering of those around them.

As an associate pastor, I get to watch the actions of my church and its members as they share their lives. A food pantry serves almost four hundred families a week with dry goods,  produces, and baked items for a family of four. Hopefully, we will be able to again open the clothing pantry, job assistance, and life skills classes like GED completion when some of the social separation restrictions ease. 

I see stories of members making meals for shut-ins, providing contact and comfort for those who have lost friends and loved ones, and cannot grieve as we could before the COVID restrictions in hospital and funeral settings. I hear about drive-by birthday parties and graduation celebrations. I watch zoom groups connect just to share with each other and make sure we are all okay mentally and physically throughout the week. Food at a neighbor’s door. A yard randomly mowed. Flowers left on a doorstep. Cards zipping through the mail. Tokens of gratitude showing up through Amazon deliveries. Dozens of small, seemingly insignificant acts that brighten the day of another person that extends the love of Christ.

Those names will never make the news. Their acts of kindness will go unnoticed by the general public. CNN will not put a camera or a microphone in front of them and marvel at their generosity and splash their picture across the Mega Screen in Times Square. But God takes not of every act we do. Paul enumerates the responsibilities of those reborn in his letter to the church in Rome.

Let love be genuine; hate what is evil, hold fast to what is good;

Love one another with mutual affection; outdo one another in showing honor.

Do not lag in zeal, be ardent in spirit, serve the Lord.

Rejoice in hope, be patient in suffering, persevere in prayer.

Contribute to the needs of the saints; extend hospitality to strangers.

Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse them.

Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep.

Live in harmony with one another; do not be haughty, but associate with the lowly; (Romans 8:9-16 NIV)

One word sums up our responsibility. Love. Jesus gave us two commands that engulf the rest of what we should do as citizens of his kingdom. Love God and love others. That’s it. He went on to say we can’t love God, who we can’t see, if we don’t love others we can see. 

The unusual conditions we face today present an incredible opportunity for Christians to show what it means to love God. Loving him means we must love others, too. Jesus said it. He understood it and demonstrated it for the thirty-plus years he lived with us. We certainly make mistakes in how we present ourselves as Christians from time to time, but now is an excellent time just to show those around us that we care. 

Find ways to connect. Take a meal to a neighbor and leave it on their doorstep. Ring the bell and go. We don’t need credit for doing God’s work. We don’t need our names in the paper or CNN showing up. All I care about is that my name is written in the Book of Life. But because of everything he has done for me, doesn’t he deserve my giving something in return?

It’s interesting when you look at some statistics. Congress continually talks about wanting to help those in need through legislation and programs. The average income in the Senate is just over $2M a year and in the House, just over $1.5M a year. Yet their charitable giving according to their tax records average less than 2%. So I guess they just want to help with our money, not theirs. Because middle-income charitable giving hovers closer to 10%, I sometimes wonder where our elected officials’ hearts are. Do they really want to help, or do they want to get votes from those with a heart to help? It does raise an interesting question. 

Should we look at Paul’s description of our responsibilities again? Perhaps it will encourage you to be different in this new normal we face. Some things have changed for the better because of our separation from the hustle and bustle of life. Maybe we can focus on what we should do as the body of Christ as some of the constraints lift in the coming days. Listen again and let Paul’s words settle not just in your mind and heart, but in your hands and feet as you daily work as for the Lord.

Let love be genuine; hate what is evil, hold fast to what is good;

Love one another with mutual affection; outdo one another in showing honor.

Do not lag in zeal, be ardent in spirit, serve the Lord.

Rejoice in hope, be patient in suffering, persevere in prayer.

Contribute to the needs of the saints; extend hospitality to strangers.

Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse them.

Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep.

Live in harmony with one another; do not be haughty, but associate with the lowly; (Romans 8:9-16 NIV)

You can find me at richardagee.com. I also invite you to join us at San Antonio First Church of the Nazarene on West Avenue in San Antonio to hear more Bible-based teaching. You can find out more about my church at SAF.church. Thanks for listening. If you enjoyed it, tell a friend. If you didn’t, send me an email and let me know how better to reach out to those around you. Until next week, may God richly bless you as you venture into His story each day. 

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Do good things for someone (Luke 14:12-14) December 1, 2016

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Read it in a year – Ecclesiastes 11-12

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Luke 14:12-14
Jesus: When you host a dinner or banquet, don’t invite your friends, your brothers, your relatives, or your rich neighbors. If you do, they might invite you to a party of their own, and you’ll be repaid for your kindness. Instead, invite the poor, the amputees, the cripples, the blind. Then you’ll be blessed because they can never repay you. Your reward will come from God at the resurrection of the just and good.

What do Jesus’ words mean for us today?

When is the last time you just did something good for someone you didn’t know? When I was in uniform, it happened to me often. Desert Storm changed the way Americans viewed service members after many years of not caring much about them. That series of events, however, brought our attention back to the freedoms we enjoy as a privilege of living in this country. And service men and women around the world help to protect those freedoms.

So after I returned from Desert Storm, it wasn’t uncommon if I was in uniform to eat in an airport during my travels or at restaurant on my way to or from some official function and find that when I went to pay for my meal someone had already paid my bill. I seldom knew who did it and the manager usually told me the person didn’t want to be recognized, just wanted to tangibly express his thanks for my service. It was pretty touching.

I try to do that every once in a while. No reason except I feel prompted to do it. I don’t want anyone to know my name. I don’t want any recognition. I just want to give because God has blessed me in so many ways. I think that’s what Jesus is talking about when He talks to the host of the dinner He attended that day 2000 years ago. I think He would commend those folks who buy the lunch of a soldier just because. I think He would be happy about giving away a new shirt with the tags still on it to the guy sleeping under the bridge. I think He would be happy about inviting that visitor to your church to lunch knowing they are just passing through and may never stop in your town again.

Something happens to you when you do those things. You get a good feeling inside because you’ve done something good with no expectation of payment. No expectation of anything in return. No hope that you will receive any reciprocal favor. You just do something good and doing good things has internal rewards that are hard to describe.

First, they take your mind off your own problems. When you help other people, you don’t focus on yourself and the day to day issues you face. When you focus on you, those little ankle biters seem to consume you. When you begin to help others and just look for random acts of kindness you can do expecting nothing in return, you focus on others and don’t have as much time to ruminate about you.

Second, studies are showing that doing good for others releases those endorphins runners talk about. You get that natural high without drugs or artificial stimulants and at the same time someone else benefits from your kind act. So a double blessing happens, the person who receives your help and the healthy hormones released into your body when you just do good things.

Third, Jesus makes a pretty significant promise here. He says that your reward will not come from men, because you have purposely done things for those who cannot repay you, right? Your reward will come from God. He will reward you at the resurrection for your just and good deeds. That is so much better than the temporary payment you might get on this side of the grave. Whatever you receive here you can’t take it with you. But what God gives you, lasts throughout eternity.

And doing good doesn’t have to cost you anything. Maybe you know a young mother that needs some respite from her kids. Or an elderly person that just needs some company. Maybe some volunteer house cleaning for someone that is getting over an illness or a loss. How about some handyman work? What kind of skills do you have that you can just give to someone who needs it.

I think God gives us talents and skills and experiences to help each other, not necessarily just for personal gain. Sure, we can earn a reasonable living with the skills He has given us, but He has also given us those gifts to share with others so they can understand the love of God given freely to those around us. After all, He gives us His grace freely. He shed His blood for us and forgives us when we ask. Why wouldn’t we give ourselves in service to others since He has done so much for us.

So now the only thing left to do is keep your eyes open today for the opportunity to do some random act of kindness for someone today expecting nothing in return. Just do something good. You’ll enjoy it, I promise.

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The Golden Rule (Matthew 7:12) February 1, 2016

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Read it in a year – Genesis 16-19

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Matthew 7:12
Jesus This is what our Scriptures come to teach: in everything, in every circumstance, do to others as you would have them do to you.

What do Jesus’ words mean for us today?

We like to turn this around and have others treat us like we want to be treated, but do we really stop and listen to what Jesus teaches us in this short verse? He sums up what love is all about here. Love springs from the scriptures. God is the very essence of love and shares it in the words He leaves us. So Jesus sums up the those teachings in this simple formula. “in everything, in every circumstance, do to others as you would have them do to you.”

We too often think that applies to mercy and justice. When someone hurts us, what would we like done to us? We want mercy, of course, so we should show that person mercy. When someone insults us, our human tendency is to retaliate and do the same, but we stop and listen to this teaching and ask ourself, what would we want done to us, so we don’t insult in return, right? These are good things. I’m not saying stop that self analysis before you react in ways God does not want you to react.

But let’s stop and consider the deeper thought Jesus shared with His listers and with us. Remember He gives instructions that turns us away from selfish motive. He turns us to think of others. He points us toward doing good deeds for the benefit of those we can touch. Demonstrate God’s love through our actions. So if that’s what Jesus has been telling us to this point, He probably means to carry that message through with this tidbit of instruction as well. This command isn’t just about showing mercy. It isn’t about holding off on our vengeance against those that wrong us as we so often want to use this verse.

Jesus give us these words to spark us into action. Listen to those words once more. “In everything, in every circumstance, do to others as you would have them do to you.” So stop for just a minute and think. What would you like someone to do for you today? Would you like someone to tell you, “I love you?” Then find somone and tell them those words and mean it. Would you like someone to compliment your work efforts? Then find one of your co-workers and compliment them.

Would it be nice if someone paid for your gas at the pump? Fill the tank of the next car that pulls up at the pump next to you. Would you like to get flowers? A book you’ve been wanting to read? A meal at a restaurant? A ride somewhere? Just stop and think about what you would want someone to for you today. Then do it for someone else.

Talk about turning the world upside-down. I will tell you that you’ll get some strange looks. People will think you’re weird. Some folks won’t accept you’re gift and you’ll have to go to the next person or convince them you’re not trying to steal their kids or something. You might have an opportunity to tell them the meaning of this great verse.

This verse changes how you look at the world. It changes how you approach each day. It changes how you view your enemies and your friends. It changes your relationships in your family. It turns you into a giver instead of a taker. It forces you to think about others and what you can do for them instead of always looking out for your own interests. It builds community.

Think about what would happen in your office if you and everyone around you began each day with this attitude toward your customers and each other. How would this attitude change your neighborhood? How would this attitude change your church? What would it do to your family? How would things change if everyone began to do things for others in every circumstance that they would want done for themselves?

Do you think we might see doors opened for others again? People giving up their seats in crowded places? Politeness in lines? Words of gratitude to cashiers and customers? Would we start to see people smiling and saying hello to each other again without thinking they’re about to be mugged or sold something they don’t want or surveyed? We would be transported back to a society we haven’t seen in decades when we thought we were a Christian nation.

Stop today and let this verse sink in for you. Meditate on it. Write down some of those things you would like someone to do for you today, then go out and do them for someone else. You’ll be amazed at the change in attitude that will come over you when you do. They don’t have to be big or expensive, just simple, random acts of kindness. You’ll make someone’s day and it will make yours, too. Try it.

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The extra mile (Matthew 5:38-42) January 16, 2015

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Read it in a year – Matthew 5-6

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Matthew 5:38-42
Jesus: You know that Hebrew Scripture sets this standard of justice and punishment: take an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth. But I say this, don’t fight against the one who is working evil against you. If someone strikes you on the right cheek, you are to turn and offer him your left cheek. If someone connives to get your shirt, give him your jacket as well. If someone forces you to walk with him for a mile, walk with him for two instead. If someone asks you for something, give it to him. If someone wants to borrow something from you, do not turn away.

What do Jesus’ words mean for us today?

This part of Jesus’ Sermon on the Mount doesn’t resonate well in today’s market. Take a look at the news media and you’ll see the evidence of what I’m talking about. Everyone wants justice. We even have the news reporting councilmen calling for the “stoning of cops” who are trying to keep peace in racially volitile cities and circumstances. What ever happened to our Christian nation and Jesus’ call to turn the other cheek?

Did He really mean for us to take the abuse others might deal out to us and just roll over and play dead? Did Jesus really want us to suffer at the hands of our enemies and let them punish us unjustly? Did He really call for us to bear injury and insult when we have within our means to defend ourselves against those who would harm us?

The answer to each of those questions is yes. The problem in our society today is we have become so sensitive to wanting our own way and wanting what we want, we forget that our wants are really not important. It’s what God wants that’s important. Walking through this life and fighting against evil is not our fight. It’s God’s. Remember the prayer Jesus taught us to pray? He says, “Keep us from the evil One.” That’s what God wants to do for us.

Paul talks about suffering and the abuse we can expect as Christians. But he reminds us that Christ also suffered wrongly. He suffered for doing good. Those who persecuted Jesus, Paul, the Apostles and the saints Paul writes about suffered for doing what was right. They broke no laws. They slander none of the authorities. They damaged no property. Still they were beaten, imprisoned, and often executed. Jesus was crucified as a sinless sacrifice. None of us can stand up to that standard. We have all sinned.

But in as much as we can obey the laws of our land and love and help our neighbors, we should. In as much as we can demonstrate love to our enemies, God says we must. But recognize we will still suffer abuse at their hands. And Jesus says, “Turn the other cheek.” Show them kindness. Love instead of hate. Show them that you recognize they are still one of God’s creation and He loves them through you.

Is it easy? No. But possible through God’s Spirit living in you. Paul talked about the number of Roman guards converted while he was prisoner. Why? Because he didn’t fight against them, but loved them with God’s love. He understood their abuse and persecution was because Satan blinded them to the truth of God’s love. Paul shared what he gained through that Damascus Road experience and loved them with a love they could not understand. And over time, some of those rough, battle-hardened soldiers came to know Christ because of Paul’s witness.

Like Jesus, Paul accepted the persecution, the beating, the imprisonment, because he knew his accusers acted out of ignorance. They didn’t know they acted out through selfishness against God, not necessarily against Paul. So it is with those who strike out against us. So often what seems like a personal attack isn’t. It’s the other person’s selfish motives shining through. It’s that carnal nature screaming out I want my way more than anything else. I don’t care about anyone or anything except me and my desires and I’ll do whatever I want to get my way.

So what do we do in today’s world to carry out Jesus’ words? Do we let the world run over us? I don’t think so, but neither do we take up stance we see so many groups taking today either calling for their own way. I think the answer is we extend God’s love. Will we be hurt in the process sometimes? Expect it. Jesus was. The crowds crucified Him. The harder life is to live as a living sacrifice sometimes. But He calls us to that life. Be Christ to those who would abuse us. Live with His plans in mind instead of our own.

What is His will for a situation? I expect it isn’t the protests in the street, the name calling, the slander, or the radical calls to exterminate one sect or another. I expect Christ would gently call us to give up our shirt and coat, walk an extra mile, turn the other cheek, say a kind word, give a cup of water, bandage a cut knee, pick up the trash, mend a fence, paint a wall, provide a meal, sit at a table and share a cup of coffee, be a friend.

How can you share Christ in a crisis? Sticks and stones never work, but a few loving words might make all the difference in the world. Walk the extra mile with someone today.

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Do you work for Me? (Ruth 2), Apr 5, 2015

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Today’s Bible reading plans include:

Ready – Ruth 2
Set – Ruth 2; Psalms 61; 2 Corinthians 5
Go! – Ruth 1-2; Psalms 53, 61; 2 Corinthians 5

Ruth 2
1Now Naomi’s deceased husband, Elimelech, had a relative in Bethlehem, an honorable, wealthy man named Boaz. 2 One day Ruth (the foreign woman who returned with Naomi from Moab) approached Naomi with a request.

Ruth: Let me go out into the field and pick up whatever grain is left behind the harvesters. Maybe someone will be merciful to me.

Naomi: Go ahead, my daughter.

3 Ruth left and went into the fields to pick up the gleanings, the grain that had been left behind by the harvesters. And so it was that the portion of the field she was working in belonged to Boaz, who was a part of Elimelech’s family.

4 As she was working in his field, Boaz happened to arrive from Bethlehem, and he greeted the harvesters.

Boaz: The Eternal One be with you.

Harvesters: May the Eternal bless you!

5 Then seeing Ruth, Boaz spoke to the young man in charge of the harvesters.

Boaz: Whom does this young woman belong to?

Overseer: 6 She is the Moabite woman who came back with Naomi from Moab. 7 She came and asked my permission to pick up the grain our harvesters leave behind and gather it all into sheaves for herself. Except for one small break she has been here all day, working in the field from the morning until now.

Boaz (to Ruth): 8 Listen to me, my daughter. Do not go and glean in any other field. In fact, do not go outside my property at all but stay with the young women who work for me following the harvesters and bundling the grain into sheaves. 9 Watch the harvesters, and see which field they are working in. Follow along behind these servants of mine. I have warned the young men not to touch you. If you are thirsty, go and get a drink from the water jars my young men have filled for the harvesters.

10 Overwhelmed, Ruth bowed down before Boaz, putting her face to the ground in front of him.

Ruth: I am just a foreigner. Why have you noticed me and treated me as if I’m one of your favorites?

Boaz: 11 I have heard your story. I know about everything you have done for your mother-in-law since your own husband died. I know you left your own mother and father, your home and your country, and you have come to live in a culture that must seem strange to you. 12 May the Eternal repay you for your sacrifices and reward you richly for what you have done. It is under the wings of Israel’s God, the Eternal One, that you have sought shelter.

Ruth: 13 I pray you will continue to look upon me with such favor, my lord. I am comforted by your kind words, even though I am not as worthy of them as even one of your servant girls.

14 Later during the meal, Boaz spoke to Ruth again.

Boaz: Come over here and have some of my food. Dip your piece of bread in the vinegar wine.

So Ruth sat down among the harvesters. Boaz also offered her some roasted grain. She ate as much as she wanted and even had some left over. 15 When her meal was finished, she got back up and returned to work. Then Boaz pulled some of the young harvesters aside and gave them instructions about her.

Boaz: Let her pick up grain from among the sheaves. Do not reprimand or humiliate her for gleaning where it is usually forbidden. 16 Instead, periodically pick out a stalk or two from the sheaves that have already been bound, and leave them for her to gather for herself. Make sure that no one gives her a hard time.

17 So Ruth worked in the field all day until the sun had nearly set. When she finished picking up the leftover ears, she beat her gathered barley grains from the stalks with a stick. All that work resulted in over 20 quarts of grain. 18 Then she carried it back to the city where her mother-in-law saw how much she had gleaned. Ruth took out the leftover food from what she could not eat of her midday meal and gave it to Naomi.

Naomi (to Ruth): 19 Where did you go to work today? Where did you glean all this from? May God bless the person who gave you this kind of attention.

So Ruth told Naomi the story of all that had happened to her that day and on whose land she had worked.

Ruth: The man I worked with today is named Boaz.

Naomi: 20 May the Eternal bless this man. He has not given up showing His covenant love toward the living and the dead.

This man is closely related to us—he is a kinsman-redeemer of our family.

Ruth: 21 That is not all he did. Boaz also instructed me to stay with his young workers for the remainder of his grain harvesting season.

Naomi: 22 It is best that you do as he says. Stay with his young women who bind the sheaves. They will keep you safe from the hostility and danger of working in another’s field.

23 So that is what Ruth did. She kept close to Boaz’s young female servants and picked up everything they dropped. She worked hard throughout the seven weeks of the wheat and barley seasons until the harvest was complete in early summer. And this whole time she lived at her mother-in-law’s home.

Today’s Devotional

From today’s background scripture God might say:

Two things I want you to take away from today’s scripture lesson – Ruth’s work ethic and Boaz’ kindness and generosity. Ruth could have used other means to gain income instead of breaking her back in the grain fields. Picking up left over stalks of grain and bundling them into sheaves in the heat of the day to thresh them later is dirty work. The left over grain is usually small, with few grains on the stalk. It’s left behind for a reason. Those left behind stalks are not worth the effort for the harvesters trouble. But for the hungry, the effort may provide the only food they get for the coming days.

So Ruth labored diligently for her mother-in-law and herself. She endured the back-breaking work. She endured the scorching sun. She endured the ridicule as one of the poorest of the poor to even be there. She endured it all and worked with all the energy she could muster to gather the scraps so she could feed the mother-in-law she pledged her life to.

I admire her work ethic in the dire circumstances in which she found herself.

I also admire Boaz’ kindness and generosity to her. My word reminds you that Boaz told his workers to protect Ruth. He instructed them to leave some extra stalks of grain for her and let her gather wherever she wanted in his field. If she happened to gather some of the grain that his harvesters cut but had not yet bundled, leave her alone and let her have the grain. Don’t take it from her even though they had a right to do so. Let her feed herself and her mother-in-law.

Boaz will later pay the price of making Ruth his wife, purchasing the land that belonged to her father-in-law and pledging to care for Ruth’s extended family in doing so. By taking Ruth as his wife, Boaz takes on the responsibility of Naomi’s welfare as well. The kindness and generosity he expresses is no less than the kind of love I show My children. Unconditional giving expecting nothing in return. Remember at this point Boaz didn’t know Ruth was kin to him.

Express My love to others in tangible ways. Let kindness and generosity be your guide. Work well and diligently as if working for Me. You’ll not regret it.

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